Loving Ourselves

Letting in Real Love: 5 Ways Your Past May Be Causing You to Sabotage Healthy Relationships

An empowered woman has healthy relationships.

But when you’re learning how to be an empowered woman, and you’ve come from toxic or unhealthy relationships, this transition can be trickier than we anticipate. ….

Recently Left a Toxic Relationship? 5 Words of Wisdom to Help You Move from Surviving to Thriving

Life after a toxic relationship - whether it’s a dating relationship, marriage, or something else - has its challenges.

Not only do we suddenly face creating a new life for ourselves, but we’re carrying a lot of baggage. There’s often deep wounds that need healed; an identity that needs rediscovered; and a survivor mindset that’s been prevalent for way too long. We want to thrive, but the question is how? ….

Spending Valentine’s Day as a Single Christian Woman? 4 Reasons Why You Should Celebrate Yourself

As I know from personal experience, Valentine’s Day can be a lonely affair.

Our hearts long for that special someone, but God hasn’t yet brought the right man into our lives. Meanwhile, it feels as if everyone else is either dating or married.

So, what can a single lady do? ….

Trusting God’s Plan (Part 3): The Calling. Embracing the Brave, Windy Road to Your God-Given Dream

Sometimes God puts us on a road that seems to be taking us further from our dreams.

For example, last spring,God called me to write a book. Then several months later, in addition to job hunting, He placed me in a long-distance relationship and called me to move across the country. As a result, I had to set aside Relate Escape for over a year.

But guess what? God wasn’t being illogical. His plan is just bigger than mine ….

Trusting God’s Plan (Part 2): The Breakup. When You Realize Your Man Isn’t the One God Has for You

Have you ever been in a relationship that took an unexpected turn or suddenly fell apart?

I recently moved 2,000 miles to the town where my then boyfriend lived, only for the relationship to end soon after my arrival. This was partly due to the state of the relationship, and partly due to the fact that God specifically told me to back away and leave my man in His hands.

On one hand, the breakup felt sudden and unexpected. …

Where Did Jenn Go? Meeting the Man of My Dreams, 19,000 Written Words, and Other Sudden Life Changes

If you’re a follower of the show, then you know I haven’t released a new episode since mid-September. Trust me - it was NOT my intention to disappear for two months.

BUT God.

Yep - that one tiny sentence can throw a real wrench in our plans, right?! ….