Loving Ourselves

3 Ways to Tell if Your Story is Meant to Play an Important Role in Your God Given Calling or Dream

Sister, do you know that your story - whatever that looks like - is meant to be a vital component of your God given calling or dream?

While your passions and talents definitely play a role, it's your story that holds the real power to change lives. Yet so often, we dismiss, devalue, or overlook our own story - all the while asking God to deliver a fresh new dream. Meanwhile, what He really wants is for us to serve others just like ourselves.

So how do you know if God is calling you to share your story? …

There's No Limit to What We as Women Can Accomplish, But This Hidden Behavior Might Be Holding You Back

As an empowered Christian woman, you need to be aware of the things impeding your progress. And sometimes that impediment can be a hidden mindset or behavior that you’re not even aware of.

A few years ago, I had a powerful moment where I realized that I had been consistently sabotaging my own progress - despite everything that I truly wanted. And though I hadn't recognized what I was doing for the longest time, I came to realize that I had been tripping myself up on purpose. …

How to Build Confidence as a Christian Woman When You Don't Feel Strong or Believe in Yourself

Do you want to increase your confidence? Are you tired of feeling frozen in uncertainty and want to make decisions with surety instead?

Believe it or not, I used to have very little confidence. I didn't trust myself to make the right decisions - or deal with the outcome - and I was constantly worried about making the "right choice."

But sister, we can't be empowered Christian women if we don't have confidence! And guess what? God wants to help you grow in this area! …

Still Beating Yourself Up Over that Big Mistake? Why Not Forgiving Yourself Can Seriously Block Your Growth with Jesus

Sister, what mistake or sin have you been holding onto? You know, that one thing that you keep berating yourself for.

Are you constantly playing out different scenarios of how things could have been different - while battling feelings of guilt, shame, or foolishness? Are you afraid to make choices, even beneficial ones, because of it?

You may have told yourself that you've moved on, but the endless cycle in your head says otherwise. And, friend, I know exactly where you're at.

Jesus recently pointed out this exact issue to me - and what I needed to do. Turns out, I needed to forgive myself. …

The Necessity of Setting Healthy Boundaries as a Jesus Empowered Woman (Including After a Toxic or Abusive Relationship)

Do you struggle with setting healthy boundaries?

For example, do you find yourself saying "yes" when you should say "no"? Is it difficult to not let other people's wants or ideas override your own feelings, goals, or workload? What about taking on responsibilities that really belong to someone else?

I've been there, sister! I used to be absolutely horrible when it came to setting boundaries. But Jesus calls us to thrive - not survive. And in order to do that, we need to understand the true power and importance of healthy boundaries - and how to implement them. …

Not Sure You Can Survive This Season of Singleness? Make Sure These 3 False Messages Aren't Impacting Your Perspective

Is God calling you into a season of singleness as a Christian woman?

Does it feel like too much of a challenge? Maybe you're worried, confused or frustrated. Maybe you feel as if God is withholding something from you - like your dream of a husband. Or maybe the idea of being single just feels so dang lonely.

Even if you're coming out of a bad marriage, relationship, or other situation where you know you need to focus on Him, a season of singleness can be hard. Certain internal blockers and external messages can keep us from receiving the blessings that God has for us. …